10 Modern Ways To Wear Denim Jacket

You don’t have to be a haulier to get a lot of mileage out of a trucker. Or a cowboy. The jean jacket (as its founding fathers call it in US) has, like a lot of workwear staples, gone from being a beat-up old-reliable of menswear to a go-to for more dress codes than you’d imagine.

“A denim jacket is a fantastic option to have at your disposal for its versatility, especially at this time of the year,” says Daniel Rhone, stylist and personal shopper for a squad of top, top Premier League footballers – emphasis on ‘ballers’. “I like to layer one as a middle tier between my choice of outerwear and an underlayer of a tee or shirt. Particularly if I’ve underestimated the temperature outside.”

You don’t have to take his word for it, although you should, because he’s a very cool guy, even when he wraps up warm. But to drive the point home, here are 10 different ways to pardner a jean jacket so that you can keep on trucking down the road.

With Chinos

You’re effectively wearing jeans on your top half, and you know that double denim is dangerous territory. But so is going out half-naked. Enter chinos. They can be smart, with formalising features such as pleats, creases and a tab closure, but they can also be casual.

Their military history and typically utilitarian cotton-twill fabric nevertheless make them a dependable denim ally; the original khaki – technically a colour, not a style – is a classic pairing. Add a white T-shirt (see below) and you’re Don Draper at the weekend.

With A White T-shirt

This is another classic pairing enshrined in Americana. A crisp but fuss-free look, it’s not quite as easy as you might think.

Its success largely hinges on finding the perfect white tee, which can be a Goldilocks-ian quest: not too slim, not too baggy; not too translucent, not too bulletproof; not too “gunny”, not too modest; not too much like a dress, not too much like a crop-top; not so high on the neck so that it’s an undershirt-cum-garotte, not so low that it’s a clavicle-exposing deep-U.

Whoever called the white tee a basic was wrong.

With Black Jeans

Double denim can be doubly good even if you flagrantly transgress the ‘distinct shades’ rule: see Martin Sheen in Badlands. It can also be very, very bad: see Justin Timberlake in your nightmares. But for a fail-safe way to splice jeans, black and blue is hard to beat.

Other colours of jeans can do the same trick: grey, for one, and even white, although that presents its own pitfalls, not to mention impracticalities. But like Wesley Snipes having a cheeky flutter on the Rugby World Cup, always bet on black.

With Indigo Jeans

A shade more difficult than black jeans, but still not that hard, unwashed indigo denim will stand much less of a chance of optically bleeding into a lighter and/or distressed denim jacket than lighter and/or distressed jeans, for reasons that should hopefully be apparent from reading this sentence.

It’s not like double, indistinguishably dark denim can’t ever be done, mind: we seem to recall Ryan Gosling looking fairly badass in Drive. But that said, he is Canadian, so may possess a home country advantage.

With A Shirt And Tie

Yes, you can mix business with workwear. Make the partnership less what-the-hell by dialling down the dressiness of the other elements to bring them more in line with your decidedly casual trucker: a button-down Oxford instead of a stiff-coloured poplin; a knitted tie instead of woven silk; chinos instead of tailored trousers (although they can work too – see below).

N.B., even if your denim jacket isn’t overly faded, it’s still way more informal than any tailored equivalent, so may not be SFW at your place of employment.

With Tailored Trousers

Similar to the shirt and tie, it helps if you can minimise the seeming discord between your casual jacket and smart trousers. That could be by jacking your jacket up in smartness with an unwashed dark denim, plus minimal bells and whistles such as contrast stitching or rivets.

Likewise, you could pull your trousers down a notch in formality with a more substantial, nubby material that’s closer to denim on the spectrum. Or opt for a relaxed fit, a cropped length or turn-ups.

With Joggers

A denim jacket doesn’t exactly fall under the category of sportswear, unless you’re a rodeo rider. But it provides a degree of structure to offset the softness of your joggers, as well as more prosaically just not being another piece of jersey, thereby saving you from having to go full tracksuit or ‘Tesco tuxedo’.

This isn’t a hard-and-fast rule (there aren’t many of those left in menswear) but you’re probably best to steer clear of cowboy details on your denim jacket. Style historians don’t record athleisure as having been a key trend in the Old West.

With A Roll Neck

Anywhere you can wear a shirt, you can rock a roll neck. Well, pretty much. But before you knit up, consider your denim jacket’s finish, whether pristine indigo or battered stonewash, and how that metaphorically stitches together with your jumper.

If the latter’s too sheer and sheeny, there might be a dissonance with the rough, tough denim; too chunky and your jacket might appear insubstantial by comparison. (Generally speaking, layers should get thicker the further away they get from your body, and vice versa.)

With A Hoodie

This combo is a fallback for any menswear blogger attempting to look vaguely urban. Don’t let that put you off. A hoodie is a natural sparring partner for a denim jacket because they’re both low-key, chuck-on weekend staples.

In that vein, don’t overdo it. Keep the colours neutral and don’t go too boxy with the fit of the hoodie. Avoid the brash logos of streetwear’s latest drops and stick to a navy or grey marl under a blue denim jacket.

With An Overcoat Or Topcoat

As with a tailored blazer, your denim jacket should be slim fitting if you want to wear it under an overcoat. You should just about be able to get two fingers down it when done up and it should be narrow-necked so it doesn’t compete with your coat’s lapels.

By its nature, even the smartest tailored outerwear has a degree of ruggedness so this is not as incongruous as you might think. Don’t be afraid to juxtapose, either: camel, which normally skews formal, can be a really nice combo. Bonus points if your jacket’s stitching matches the colour.

The Art of Wearing Clothes: (15 Rules Should Know)

There are enough rules in life as it is. Some, however, are there to help. Like the rules that govern how to dress well. Of course, every man or woman that has an opinion on such things speaks from personal experience – and no doubt what works for one doesn’t always work for another; or what works for one is considered too pedestrian or too avant-garde by another. So, when it comes to dressing, they always have to be taken at face value. They’re solid suggestions rather than the last word on style.

But good advice is never to be sniffed at, and, as menswear becomes ever more rich and varied, ever more experimental and abundant, ever more trend-aware, in moments of confusion and self-doubt, it can help to have a valuable fall-back position that cuts through the clutter.

These ‘rules’ tend to be founded in history – they’ve worked for generations, so might well be assumed to work well today too. And they tend to be founded in the obvious, so obvious they’re often overlooked: a preference for a good fit, high quality, versatility, good value, lack of extremes and keeping it sober.

There are certainly many other rules out there than are presented here. Some of these you may have already discovered for yourself. That, after all, is part of the pleasure of clothing, which no rule should hamper: trying new kit out, seeing if it suits you, seeing how it makes you feel. But, these rules have stood the test of time and, when used in conjunction, act as a failsafe guide on how to dress well today.

1. Wear A Suit Well

The key to a suit looking good is fit. If you’re buying off-the-peg, focus on the fit across the shoulders because getting the chest and waist altered is a relatively easy job according to Davide Taub, head of bespoke suits at Savile Row tailor Gieves & Hawkes. “Be cautious about wearing a period suit unless you’re pursuing a total period look because in isolation the suit starts to look like a novelty,” he adds. Classic is best and most useful – dark, two-button, single-breasted, moderate in details. “It’s not boring. A suit is a uniform. The idea is to think of this suit as a canvas to build different ideas of individuality around. It’s the way you wear it, not the label inside, that impresses.”

Gieves & Hawkes

2. Invest Wisely In A Watch

“A watch is like a piece of art,” argues Don Cochrane, managing director of British watch brand Vertex. “Choose it because you love it, not because you think it might make money. Watches are personal, it marks your passage through time. But you also have to be practical.” Aesthetically, functional, rugged sports models go with anything and can take the hard knocks of everyday wear. Yet, a watch still has to fit you. It should feel comfortable and be right in terms of size and depth relative to your wrist as well – 40mm is considered the ‘Goldilocks’ size.

Vertex

3. Don’t Shy Away From Colour

Whether it’s on casualwear or formalwear, indulge in a bit of colour. “Most men are unjustly scared of it – they’re intimidated by anything that isn’t navy or grey,” says menswear designer Oliver Spencer. “But colour can be timeless too.” A green suit, for example, can look particularly rakish, while Spencer also recommends pinks, greens, mustard and brighter shades of blue as especially versatile year-round shades that will lift your entire outfit. But he adds that, when it comes to colour, less is still more: “You just need a bit of it, in one garment.”

4. Wear In Your Jeans Until They Are Yours

The all-time most useful cut of the world’s most popular garment, according to Alex Mir, co-owner of Sheffield-based label LinkText, is ‘slim-tapered’. “It’s wider in the thigh, so it’s comfortable, but narrows, so it works with either smart shoes or sneakers,” he advises. “It’s the best year-round, wear-with-anything, dress up or down style.” The wise will wear dark, raw denim too and give the pre-distressed a wide berth. “The whole pleasure of denim is that it ages with the way you wear it. Why miss out on that?”

5. Look After Your Appearance

It’s the kind of advice your mother might offer, but if you’ve invested money and thought in your clothing, look after it. Use wooden hangers for shirts and shoe trees for your best shoes; have your suit dry-cleaned and pressed; wash your clothes regularly and, ideally, don’t tumble dry them (it can degrade the fabric); and polish your shoes. Equally, it’s not just the skin of your leather jacket that you need to care for, the same goes for the one you wear everyday. Establish a simple, but no less solid, grooming regime, brush your hair and cut your nails. After all, the devil resides in the details.

6. Keep Your Underwear Simple

Style isn’t only what everyone else can see. When it comes to men’s underwear, there are two rules to follow. One, novelty prints are not for grown men – “your underwear is not the place to express your ‘personality’,” as shirt and underwear-maker Emma Willis notes. And, two, heavily-branded underwear lacks sophistication. “Of all places where you might have the confidence not to have branding, your underwear should be it,” adds Willis. The style that has best stood the test of time, of course, is the cotton boxer short, likely because (as is the case with linen) they take repeated washing, breath well and are comfortable against your skin.

7. Spend Money On Shoes

“Timelessness is about simple design and all the more so with shoes,” argues Tim Little, owner of heritage shoe brand Grenson. “The colour, the pattern, the sole – you don’t want it fussy. Anything fussy may look good now but will look strange very quickly.” Quality shoes — the gold standard being re-soleable Goodyear welted examples — are the kind of investment that should last 15 years or more. Opt for classic styles such as brogues, loafers, or a plain, dark, five-eyelet Derby on a round-toe last. “It’s the shape of the toe that really counts – and round never goes out of fashion,” says Little. “It’s pointy toes or square toes that look obviously impractical. Nobody has feet shaped like that.”

8. Keep Accessorising To A Minimum

Accessories like ties and pocket squares bring individuality to classic clothing, but be careful how you use them. “It’s best to harmonise them with what you’re wearing by picking out a colour or two. Or even to juxtapose them entirely,” says Michael Hill, creative director of men’s accessories brand Drake’s. “What you don’t want is to match them up.” When it comes to curating shirt and tie combinations, wear your tie or pocket square in a darker shade than your jacket. And don’t overdo the accessories either – if in doubt, think less is more and take one element away. “You’re aiming for an air of nonchalance,” adds Hill. “You just need one point of interest.”

9. Know Thyself

There’s are few things less stylish than a man dressed as he thinks he should dress rather than in what he genuinely feels suits who he is. There are caveats to that, of course: there are no prizes for dressing like a rodeo clown unless indeed you are one. But whatever you’re wearing, you have to own it. Genuine style icons are those who go their own way with a self-confidence that comes from their clothes being a second skin, not a costume.

10. Dress For The Setting

Style is not merely about self-expression; it’s also about being dressed appropriately for your environment. Think of clothes as being codes: you need the right combination to work with the setting you’re in – and that’s whether it’s a formal dinner or a lazy Sunday in the pub. The worst style is one which is out of place. Is this a kind of conformity? No, as one of Tom Ford’s oft trotted out fashion quotes explains, it’s a mark of respect for others. And about feeling comfortable in yourself. When in doubt, overdress.

11. Don’t Skimp On Glasses

Invest time into finding the right spectacles for you. “People spend an average of seven minutes picking a pair that will define them for the next three or more years,” notes eyewear designer Tom Davies. “Poor choice and poor fit are why so many people learn to hate their glasses.” Buy what you feel good in, taking into account your face shape but considering the top line of the frames’ relation to your eyebrow shape – team straight with straight, curved with curved – and your hairstyle. Buy wisely too, says Davies: there’s no point buying cheap frames and being up-sold on expensive lenses because the frames will look tatty soon enough anyway.

12. Choose Versatile Outerwear

The temptation may be to wear a classic style, but modern technical fabrics in darker shades and easy cuts are making coats what they should be – lightweight and breathable but also properly protective. “Changes in seasonality, the climate and buying habits are making heavy wool coats seem out of keeping now,” suggests Adam Cameron, owner of outerwear specialist The Workers’ Club. “Think of a coat instead as being your final layer – one you can wear as much or as little under as required.” A field or bomber jacket jacket is a good all-rounder but if you need to dress up, go for a short mac.

13. Buy A Dinner Suit, Never Hire

Occasions for the height of formal dressing may be rare, but they’re all the more exacting for that. So, while it feels like an extravagance, owning a dinner suit that fits you rather than hiring one makes more sense after years of use. “With hiring, there’s always the risk of the wearer looking almost childlike while dressed in some oversized, boxy ensemble,” warns Toby Lamb, design director of contemporary tailoring label Richard James. Own as classic a dinner suit as possible: in midnight blue, single-breasted, with satin lapels and trousers seams. And it goes without saying you should learn how to tie a bow-tie yourself.

14. With Shirts, Stick To The Classics

“It sounds silly,” says James Cook, head of bespoke shirtmaking for Turnbull & Asser, “but any men’s shirt can be made to look expensive if it’s well-pressed.” All the same, Cook is particular about the details. Strike a middle line, he recommends: avoid bold styles unless you think you can carry it off, and, for a collar that works with or without a tie, and that always sits properly under a jacket, opt for a semi-cutaway.

Turnbull & Asser

15. Know When To Break The Rules

Know when to adhere to dress codes such as black tie and know when to break them. Some are there for a good reason, typically because the occasion demands it or some higher authority – your boss, perhaps – expects it. But, likewise, as Drakes’ Hill notes, “we can get too hung up about rules as well, and there’s always a case for ripping them up”. That, after all, is how style advances, little by little. “Enjoy the freedom there is now to make mistakes.”

How to Look Cool in Everyday life

Now today's article & video will give you two tactics to being cool.

1. How to LOOK cool (what items to wear that signal cool)

2. How to ACT cool (what behaviours to master)

But why does it matter?

Because men that come off as cool are viewed as more attractive & more powerful.

Who doesn't want that?

1. Stand Up Straight

Looking cool starts with a strong presence. It's how well you carry yourself in front of others. Having a good straight posture when you're standing up (or sitting down on many occasions) is crucial here.

Social psychologist, Amy Cuddy reveals certain body language gestures that can signal weakness or timidness:

• Slouching
• Slumping
• Making yourself look small

Avoid these gestures and always check whether you're doing them subconsciously. Instead, you want to focus on feeling tall and powerful – and letting it reflect your posture. You should believe you look pretty darn good!

1. Stand Up Straight

Looking cool starts with a strong presence. It's how well you carry yourself in front of others. Having a good straight posture when you're standing up (or sitting down on many occasions) is crucial here.

Social psychologist, Amy Cuddy reveals certain body language gestures that can signal weakness or timidness:

• Slouching
• Slumping
• Making yourself look small

Avoid these gestures and always check whether you're doing them subconsciously. Instead, you want to focus on feeling tall and powerful – and letting it reflect your posture. You should believe you look pretty darn good!

2. Don't Try Too Hard

Less is more when it comes to showing who's boss. You're not going to impress people if they feel your words and actions are contrived. The key is to do fewer things… and do them effortlessly.

Think about it – what makes every James Bond we've seen so iconic? Is it the fact that he fights bad guys and saves the world? A lot of cops and secret agents have the same job. But only he can do it like it's no big deal.

Bond never fidgets or twitches anything. He speaks slowly with an even tone. He takes emotion out of the equation. He's always cool, calm and collected. We should all strive to be as poised as he is.

3. Wear Stylish Shades

That's right – sunglasses are cool. They aren't just meant to block out UV light and protect your eyes. To find the ideal shades is like finding the right hairstyle. It complements your face and brings out your personality.

Many styles are throwbacks to past eras such as Aviator sunglasses, which came around in the '30s and allowed pilots to maximize their vision while flying. We also have the Round Frame that was a trademark of composers like John Lennon and Elton John. Meanwhile, Wayfarers were popularized early on for their rock ‘n’ roll charm.

The best sunglasses are made with careful hands and attention to detail. One company known for this is Degree Seven – these guys treat frames and lenses like a work of art. Every product combines perfect shaping and colouring with a modern flare

4. Rock A Leather Jacket

These days we still love the old suit and tie, which makes sense since it always looks classy. But we shouldn't forget its casual counterpart – the leather jacket.

For many centuries leather was a rare commodity that only the wealthy got to wear. And when leather jackets came around they brought a perfect mix of function and style. They offered warmth and protection from colder weather. They were used for those funky wardrobes back in the middle-to-late 20th century. Those wearing them were the original “bad boys” who weren't afraid to rebel.

A leather jacket is edgy. It adds ruggedness to that combo of t-shirt and jeans you'd stroll around in on weekends. Check out this article to learn how to rock a leather jacket.

5. Get Jeans That Fit Well

Everybody has a pair of jeans. We all know how convenient and fashionable they are. But unlike most shirts and shoes – getting well-fitted jeans isn't a straightforward task.

To become the coolest guy in jeans you need to consider the different fitting factors:

• Waistline measurement
• Inseam measurement
• Fit style (thigh and seat proportions)
• Leg cut (change in pant leg size from top to bottom)

You should see how broad your thighs are compared to your calves. You want just enough room in both the front and back areas of your torso. All these things depend on your body structure. Here's a breakdown of the different body types and the jeans that go well with each.

6. Add Some Stubble

You might think clean-shaven is the most “proper” look but every man needs a little facial hair. I'm not saying you should grow a full beard – just stubble from a couple of days without shaving.

There are studies that reveal women find short-length stubble the most attractive type of facial hair. Some traits associated with it are maturity, aggression, and dominance.

In fact, another experiment made use of one face that was pictured with different levels of facial hair – where a fully bearded face was viewed as the most aggressive and intimidating. The clean-shaven version was viewed as the opposite.

Obviously, you don't want any drastic changes to your usual appearance. Or maybe your work discourages full-grown beards. But a bit of stubble is just right. It's the look of a stylish modern-day alpha male.

7. Walk Into A Room & Know People

You're automatically seen as the cool guy in the room when you reach out to familiar people and act like you know them well.

This means you may have to recall or research some names. It's also about exuding the kind of vibe you give off when you meet an old friend. The trick is being effortless.

Amy Cuddy says making good eye contact shows lots of confidence. It shows people you're not intending to be a wallflower at the party. But of course, you've also got to speak! Start the ball rolling: greet whoever you sort of know and introduce yourself to those you haven't met before.

If you can proactively make the whole group of guests feel comfortable – that's a massive number of cool points under your belt.

8. Assume Everyone Likes You

This one involves a “mind over matter” kind of power. You might've heard of the advice when one goes on stage to pretend the audience is in their underwear. In a way, the same principle applies here (but not as visually extreme).

Studies prove that those who expect to be accepted when they interact with a stranger are the most likeable people around. They're social optimists – their way of thinking allows them to act warmly and become more engaging. Meanwhile, social pessimists are vulnerable to a “reign of terror” in which they expect to be rejected from the get-go. They project a cold, defensive personality and reap what they sow.

Believe that you're well-liked. But don't go giving a stranger or acquaintance a big hug! You don't want them taken aback by the sudden gesture of closeness. Assume they like you – but not that they're on the same level as your actual friends. You should still respect their space.

9. Know The Rules & Break Them

Some rules are meant to be broken – or there's a right time and place to disregard them.

Many might feel strange wearing a multi-colored suit. But Daniel Craig's Bond in Skyfall makes the clash between a midnight blue tuxedo and a black shawl collar work. He owns that unorthodox style knowing he'll be looked at the same way. It just makes him even cooler. So figure out which rules you can break and what types of fashion you can pull off.

Or maybe you're going on a first date and hear it's best not to discuss your work life. I disagree – what you do for a living is important. Shouldn't you know each other's day-to-day situation if you want a serious relationship? You've got to let those details out if you really want to impress. Nobody wants to waste time with a facade of someone. Be open about yourself.

10. Know When To Drop The “Cool” Attitude

If you want a long-lasting perception as cool… you should know when to STOP being cool. You need to remind the crowd that you're a human being and not some robot with a pre-programmed agenda. This is how you go from “one of those cool guys” to “an awesome guy.”

Here are some ways you can be down-to-earth and destroy those misconceptions of phoniness:

Smile Naturally 

Once you've caught people's attention and start talking – it's no longer about that million-dollar smile. A more natural and sincere smile can influence others to see the positive side of things. The mood of the place can lighten up for which you will get the credit.

Be A Good Listener

You may have some great stories to share at a gathering. But what people really like is a guy who “actively” listens. He engages others in talking more about their interests. He gives honest compliments and asks follow-up questions to keep them going. He tries not to interrupt people and makes them feel important.

Become Vulnerable

You should show vulnerability when the situation warrants it. This will help others trust you and feel that they themselves can open up about things. In the end, you become the guy who's allowed the group to grow even closer.

25 Signs that Tell She likes you

Does she like me?

It’s a question that has no doubt entered almost every man’s mind at some point in his life.

After all, what better way to avoid rejection than by figuring out how a girl feels before signalling your romantic interest?

Yet women can sometimes be quite hard to figure out, even when we think we’re making things blatantly obvious to the guy we’re into.

And let’s be honest, you men aren’t all that great at reading the signs much of the time.

Especially when your judgement is clouded by little hearts swimming in front of your eyes when you look at someone you really fancy.

Whether you like her and aren’t sure whether she’d say yes if you asked her out, or you’ve already been out, but you’re not sure whether she’s keen to carry things on, reading a girl can be a bit of a minefield.

The key is to watch for particular behaviors and other cues that indicate her mutual attraction to you.

Some might be subtle, while others border on flirting, but here are some telltale signs that she’s into you.

1. You Catch Her Looking At You

When we like a guy, we’ll end up watching him a lot whether we like it or not, and we probably won’t be that good at hiding it. If you look at her and catch her staring, that’s a good sign.

If she smiles at you when your eyes meet, or if she responds to your smile by smiling back, that’s even more positive. Especially if it’s one of those sweet, shy smiles that comes when you’ve been caught staring.

After all, it’s hard to hide your true feelings in the moment when you’re not prepared for it.

On the other hand, and because we’re nothing if not contrary, another sign (especially if nothing has happened between you yet) is that she literally never looks at you.

She’ll studiously avoid your gaze because she doesn’t want to be too obvious.

2. And She Looks FOR You

If she comes into a room and knows you’re going to be there, watch to see if her eyes seek you out when she arrives.

Even if she doesn’t come over to you and goes to her friends instead, the fact she’s checking to see if you’re there is a very good sign, as it means you’ve been on her mind.

Those little glances signal that she is preparing herself mentally for an interaction with you later on.

3. She Starts Treating You Differently

If you’ve known her for a while as a friend and she’s suddenly developed feelings for you, she’d have to be an incredible actor to stop her behavior toward you from changing.

If you had quite a close, affectionate relationship before and she suddenly stops touching you or starts treating you differently to the way she does other guys you both know, something’s probably up.

She may no longer feel as comfortable being that friendly because in her heart she wants more.

She may want to be your girlfriend, but there’s a good chance she’s also worried about being rejected or ruining a perfectly good friendship.

4. She Replies To Your Messages

Again, this will vary from girl to girl, but generally, if we like someone, we’ll message them back pretty quickly.

That’s unless you’ve got into the dreaded ‘game’ of only replying after three days and feigning disinterest, in which case she’ll stick to that because most girls don’t want to seem like the ‘keen’ one.

Although some people thrive off these games, most girls don’t have time for them. If you keep playing, she’ll probably lose interest pretty quickly, so for the love of god stop messing around and text her back.

5. She Seems Nervous

When you first meet up, does she get a little tongue-tied? Does she struggle to come up with topics of conversation?

Is she not quite sure how to greet you? Should it be a handshake? A hug? A kiss on the cheek? A kiss on both cheeks? Or does she just stand there awkwardly?

If a woman likes you, she’ll have butterflies in her stomach when she first sees you, and that might mean her brain takes a short holiday.

She should soon relax into your company, but initial nerves are a sure sign she’s interested.

6. She’s Touchy-feely

Some girls are uncomfortable with contact in public, so this doesn’t always apply, but generally, if she’s into you, she’ll find ways to touch you, even if they’re only small gestures.

Touching your arm is definitely a good clue, as it’s deliberate and surprisingly intimate. Or she might flirt in another physical way such as playfully hitting you or even being more direct if she’s confident and highly attracted to you.

7. She Makes Plans

There’s nothing more infuriating than parting ways with a guy you like without any clear idea of when you’re seeing each other next.

If she’s not bothered about seeing you again, she’ll probably keep things vague, but if she’s interested in you, she might suggest certain days or times she’s free for another date.

Make sure you take her up on one of them if you can and pin down a plan, or she might think you’re not interested in meeting up again and go off the boil.

Having set plans gives her the reassurance she’s going to see you again, and means she doesn’t have to wait around for you to make a suggestion, which can get extremely tedious.

8. Her Friends Behave Differently

If she likes you, chances are her friends know all about it and will react in ways that reflect this.

Perhaps they leave you two alone when you approach her or maybe they drop little hints when they talk to you.

Either way, friends are often less subtle about things to the point where they give very good clues as to the feelings of the girl herself.

They may even tell you outright that she likes you – if you’re lucky! 

9. She Laughs And Smiles

If you know your jokes are bad and she’s still laughing at them, that’s an excellent sign that’s she’s got a crush on you.

Being around a guy we like generally puts us in a good mood and can make us very giggly, so smiles and laughter are excellent.

Look for big toothy grins that make her eyes sparkle too, and you know you’re in with a chance.

10. She Makes Eye Contact With You

In western culture, we’re generally pretty terrible about making eye contact, so if we do meet someone’s eyes, it’s usually done very deliberately.

Eye contact is surprisingly intimate, so if she meets your eyes and holds your gaze, that’s a very good sign.

What’s more, if you spot that her pupils dilate when speaking to you, it’s a further indication that she is interested in you.

11. She Licks Her Lips

Licking of the lips is an unconscious signal that you like what you see. And we’re not talking about grand lip licking gestures of extreme flirtatiousness…

…we’re talking about those little, snake-like tongue flicks that moisten our lips in readiness to talk or perhaps even to kiss.

12. She Blushes

Sometimes you might say or do something that makes her cheeks go pink or even bright red. This blushing is less to do with embarrassment and more to do with excitement and nervousness.

If you flirt with her and see those scarlet tones hit her cheeks, it’s a sign that she may be hiding real feelings for you.

13. She Preens Herself

If a girl likes you, she will want to look her most attractive whenever you are around. So she will check her hair, touch up her makeup, and adjust her clothes to their rightful positions.

She may regularly tuck her hair behind her ear whilst you talk or reapply lip gloss during a bathroom break. These signs can be subtle, but if you are observant you will be able to spot them.

14. Her Body Is Turned Toward You

When we’re really interested in what someone has to say, we don’t just focus on them with our eyes, we turn our whole body toward them.

If her shoulders are square on to you, she’s really focusing her attention on you. Though, it’s also important to watch her feet because if these remain pointed away from you, she’s might be hesitant to fully engage.

She’ll have open body language that is inviting and warm. She certainly won’t have crossed arms. She might also stand a little taller and push her shoulders back to expose more of her neck.

15. She Moves A Little Closer

If a girl is into you, she will probably lean in when you are talking or even take half a step toward you so as to fully engage with you.

Since this effectively pushes the boundaries of your personal space, it’s quite an intimate thing to do. But it shows interest in what you are saying and her high level of comfort around you.

16. She Tilts And/Or Drops Her Head

Another thing she might do without even realizing it is to tilt her head to one side slightly when you are talking. This expresses interest and shows that she is receptive to what you are saying.

This head tilt may be accompanied by a slight dropping of her chin toward the ground. The result is that her gaze is turned upward to your face, reducing her jaw line and giving her the classic puppy dog eye look.

This is a slightly submissive pose that shows vulnerability and appeals to the man’s protective nature.

17. She Mirrors Your Gestures And Language

We humans naturally copy what others are doing if we want to appeal to them. This could be among friends or even in business settings, but it is particularly prominent in dating scenarios.

So if you spot her mirroring your gestures, your body language, or the things that you say, it’s her subconscious mind revealing its attraction to you.

18. She Remembers Things You Say

If she likes you, she’ll probably be listening to you.

If you’ve mentioned the name of your aunt’s dog or your little brother’s birthday and she remembers, that’s proof she’s hanging on your every word and is genuinely interested in what you’re telling her, rather than zoning out.

Don’t judge us too harshly on this one because some of us have horrendous memories (we’re only human), but if she remembers little things you’ve said, she’s clearly keen.

19. She’ll Ask You Questions

Not only will she listen to what you have to say, she will dig a little deeper by asking you questions.

She wants to get to know the real you to assess whether you are boyfriend material.

She’s trying to figure out whether or not there is a connection there, so be prepared for some flirty banter that focuses mostly on you.

And she’ll want to find out about any common interests you may share and about any skeletons hiding in your closet.

20. She May Talk About More Personal, Intimate Things

Perhaps not straight away, but as you get to know each other and feel more comfortable talking about things, she may direct the conversation to topics that show a level of intimacy or vulnerability.

This could be your dreams, your fears, your beliefs, your preferences when it comes to children, or even heartache or trauma from her past.

The fact that she is opening up to you reveals that she is taking this blossoming relationship seriously.

21. She Gives You Her Undivided Attention

When the two of you are talking, she will put away her phone, ignore passing distractions, and focus her energies on you.

This is her way of showing that she is invested in what you have to say and that your words mean something to her.

And she won’t just listen to reply like many people do in casual conversation, her responses will be thoughtful, show interest, and make you feel listened to.

22. She Compliments You

If a woman wants you to have that warm, happy feeling when you’re together, she might give you a compliment or say other nice things about you.

She may speak positively about what you’re wearing or other aspects of your appearance. Or she might remark on something you did that particularly impressed her.

Whatever the context, if she is saying kind things about you, it’s a good sign that she wants you to like her.

23. She Hints Or Reveals That She’s Single

If you don’t know a girl and have just met her at a party or bar or through friends, you might be wondering what her relationship status is.

But if she is interested in you on that level after getting to know you a little bit, chances are she will find a way to let slip that she is currently free and single.

If she brings this up, it’s one of the strongest signs that she likes what she sees. If she didn’t, there would be little reason in bringing such a personal detail up.

What’s more, she’ll be very attentive to your reaction to assess whether you are also single and what your underlying emotions about her are.

24. She Caresses An Object In Her Hands

This one’s a little tricky because a woman holding something in her hands can mean very different things.

The key to figuring it out is to watch how she holds and interacts with it. Does she caress it or does she grip it tight? Does she focus on the object a lot, or are her hands moving subconsciously?

If she is holding a drink, for example, and gently stirring it whilst maintaining eye contact with you, it’s more likely to be a sign that she is relaxed and open to you as a person.

If, on the other hand, she is clutching her handbag across her midriff and looking away from you a lot, she’s trying to maintain a physical barrier between you and her either because she’s not interested, or because she is not yet comfortable enough in your presence.   

25. It’s All In The Details

A lot of the time, girls are very detail-oriented.

Big, showy gestures have their place (we’re never going to complain if a guy sweeps us off to Paris on a mini-break…), but when a girl wants to show that she likes someone, it’ll be through the little details rather than anything grand.

She might cook you dinner; she might buy you something small and silly; she might do something thoughtful for your birthday…

If she does something that requires an investment of time rather than money, she’s definitely into you and trying to show it.

Look For Repeated Signals

Noticing several of these signs is clearly very helpful when you are trying to figure out if a girl likes you as more than just friends, but the picture grows ever clearer the more you see these things repeated.

In isolation, these signs can be misinterpreted as something more than they are. Yet each time you see them, you can grow in confidence with regards to her true feelings toward you.

Like Her Back?

If she’s giving you all the right signals, you need to reciprocate to make sure she knows she’s not alone in this. She’ll be watching you closely for signs, just as you are her.

Touch her, smile, laugh at her jokes, and – this is very important – tell her that you like her (without it feeling awkward) <<– click this link to learn how best to do this.

No one’s willing to sign up for unrequited love, and even if she’s starting to like you, she’ll definitely need encouragement before she’ll let herself fall head over heels.

Enjoy the butterflies.